Long-Term Marriage, Husband Came Out as Gay and Visitation Schedule
The couple dated in college and got married after graduation. Both had been very active in their conservative church. They quietly worked out the property division and then created a plan to share time with the kids. They also worked out a safe, appropriate plan to explain the situation to the children over time.
This was a time of difficult changes for both parties. Neither one liked the divorce, but they recognized that it was necessary. They appreciated the privacy of the Collaborative process and the guidance of the neutral therapist who helped them especially in explaining things to their children. They worked out a plan to protect the young children and provide good access to the children for the Husband. Both had been very good and involved parents and they wanted to continue that for the children.